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11 reasons I’m glad I went to Blissdom

L-R: Me; Anne from NotASuperMom.com; Jasmine from TheBrokins.com; Suzanne from KinseysTexasTales.com; and Amiyrah from 4HatsAndFrugal.com.

And this is the reason I will continue going to social media conferences whenever possible. Let me tell you about some of the people I got to hang out with at Blissdom.

Anne of NotASuperMom.com is more super than she lets on. She’s super-supportive, super-funny and super-wonderful.

Jasmine from TheBrokins.com is 100 percent authentic, all the time. And she does roller derby, which is pretty much the coolest, most ferocious thing a lady can do, in my opinion.

Suzanne from KinseysTexasTales.com is all heart. She’s seriously one of the kindest, most sincere people I’ve ever met.

Amiyrah from 4HatsAndFrugal.com is going places, mark my words. She’s so smart & savvy & lovely.

Heather of Home-Ec 101 is the only person I know who can successfully wear a sailboat-print dress. I didn’t get to spend all that much time with her, because she is very rarely not doing 16 different jobs at one time.

Stephanie at Talking is My Primary Function is far too much fun. It’s good that she lives so far away from me, really. One can’t toss fake pizzas into the clouds and dance until one has to remove one’s heels every weekend.

Bridget of The Ivey League and I hit it off from the moment we met. It was fast friends at first sight. We have a frightening amount in common.

Julia of January Day (my roommate!) is just as serene as her blog would lead you to believe. She brought her own tea kettle! That’s commitment to serenity.

Piper of Piper on the Mountain is a bundle of sunshine. She lives in a gorgeous, remote part of the world, and she takes amazing pictures of her adventures.

Sherry from Paper Scissors Keyboard was a friend of a friend who said we had to meet. I’m so glad I listened, because Sherry is a gem.

Katie of Motherbumper is tiny, feisty and even funnier in person than she is on the twitters. Ask her to tell you about cake and a hook sometime.

Spending time with a bunch of bright ladies who get this goofy blogging thing was a balm to my frazzled soul. And even when it was occasionally awkward (sorry I ate so much of your candy, Bridget), it was never as awkward as those few minutes I spent on an elevator alone with Jeremy Sisto. (Turns out I act weird when the people in my TV become the people in my elevator.)

Katie & I are stunned by Jeremy Sisto’s feverish hands. // Jeremy Sisto poses with Robin Plemmons in the elevator. He is a gentleman. // Sherry and I accosted Ana Gasteyer while she was trying to watch “Suburgatory.” They didn’t tell me I was supposed to wear green.

My Blissdom 2013 notebook: Scott Stratten, Annie Downs & CC Chapman

Opening Keynote with Scott Stratten

Scott Stratten at PubCon Paradise Hawaii 2012. Photo by Michael Dorausch.
Scott Stratten is the author of “Unmarketing” and “The Book of Business Awesome.” He enjoys tattoos, trucker hats and getting very worked up about the internet. He talked to us about (surprise!) business, marketing and the internet, using the very sweet story of Joshie the giraffe and the Ritz Carlton as his opening illustration.

Here are some of my notes from his keynote:

“If you’re only awesome as a brand to influencers, you’re not awesome.”

“Nobody cares about your logo, ever, in the history of the planet.”

“Your brand is not your logo; your brand is your actions.”

“Awesome employees are not overhead.”

Social media allows people who wouldn’t directly approach a brand to vent. Social media won’t fix a bad product or experience, it will just amplify it.

“The secret to successful business: Work Hard.”

Write content for an audience beyond your subscribers.

“The best frequency to blog at is when you have something to say.”

“Write Now: Writing For the Season You’re In” with Annie Downs

Annie Downs is the author of “Perfectly Unique: Praising God from Head to Foot,” which I’m thinking about ordering for my 13-year-old niece. Annie enjoys Nutella and the internet, and she wears very cute clothes. Here are some of my notes from her session:

“Be full of grace with yourself.” (I heard variations of this concept all weekend long. Perhaps I should take it to heart?)

Write about yourself and what matters to you, but not at the expense of those you love.

What should you write about? Things you’re hoping for; topics you wish someone else was writing about. If you’re looking for it, chances are someone else is, too.

Sometimes you need to live the story before you write about it.

Do what doesn’t make you crazy.

“Living an Amazing Life” with CC Chapman

photo by Rockford
CC Chapman is the author of “Amazing Things Will Happen” and “Content Rules.” He loves his kids and his wife, he’s kind and generous, and he hates seagulls. I may have gotten a little verklempt on him when I asked him to sign his book for Rockford.

Here are some of my notes from his session:

Define “amazing” on your terms, then choose your path. You need a concrete, attainable goal.

“Normal is a boring way to live your life.”

“If they don’t want you to succeed, they’re not your friends.”

Seagulls: People who swoop in, drop poo on you and fly away. “The internet is full of seagulls.”

Be a duck: Let things roll off. I explained this concept to Pete this morning when I was mad at his sister for some minor infraction. He quacked.

Celebrate success of all sizes; don’t wait until you finish your project to celebrate.

Always give back. “Life is too short to focus on cashing the checks.”

Small steps to finding my bliss (without going to Blissdom)

The whole internet — probably not including the dramatic chipmunk, Sergey Brin and all of the LOLcats — is en route to Nashville today for Blissdom, which is a giant sleepover for bloggers.* I had hoped to be able to go, but a combination of Low Funding and a Frequent-Flyer Husband made that at first unlikely I'm not going to Blissdom, y'all!and ultimately impossible. If I didn’t have a strategy in place for the remainder of the week, I would probably be pretty bummed about that. Good thing I have some plans.

What I’ll Be Doing While The Rest of the Internet is at Blissdom

  1. Reorganizing the spice cabinet. I like to keep the spice bottles in alphabetical order, and my husband likes to not put them back where they belong. I haven’t re-alphabetized things in a few months, so it’s a little chaotic in there right now. (This is doofy, I know, but it’s also weirdly soothing.)
  2. Cleaning the bathroom. The “master bathroom” is always on my list of Things To Clean, but it’s so easy to neglect since no one else ever sees it. But it’s the first and last thing I see every day, so it ought to be a lovely and relaxing place, right? I don’t know that I’ll be able to achieve spa-like perfection this week, but I could at least wipe the toothpaste residue out of the sink.
  3. Eating lunch. I forget to eat lunch more often than not, and then I get a headache and eat All The Food around 3pm. This is so ridiculously avoidable. For the next three days, I pledge to sit down and eat some lunch.
  4. Counting my blessings. I’ve kept lists of Wonderful Things That Make Me Happy on and off for the last few years, and I always have a much more positive attitude when I do it. So why don’t I do it all the time? Good question. But I’m going to do it for at least the next few days.
  5. Reading a poem every day. A happy one, preferably, read in a quiet moment. I’m currently accepting Suggested Readings for this.

So while I’d much rather go to Blissdom than clean the bathroom, I’m not going to spend any time being upset about it. I am going to have a nicely organized spice cabinet and a sparkly clean bathroom by Friday afternoon.

Whether you’re going to Blissdom, not going to Blissdom or having no idea what Blissdom is, I hope you’re having a lovely day. And I’d like to know this: Do you have a Happiness Strategy? What is it?

*And also it’s a conference, at which I’m 90% certain stuff other than Giggling, Hair-braiding and Chocolate Consumption takes place.