My Blissdom 2013 notebook: Scott Stratten, Annie Downs & CC Chapman

Opening Keynote with Scott Stratten

Scott Stratten at PubCon Paradise Hawaii 2012. Photo by Michael Dorausch.
Scott Stratten is the author of “Unmarketing” and “The Book of Business Awesome.” He enjoys tattoos, trucker hats and getting very worked up about the internet. He talked to us about (surprise!) business, marketing and the internet, using the very sweet story of Joshie the giraffe and the Ritz Carlton as his opening illustration.

Here are some of my notes from his keynote:

“If you’re only awesome as a brand to influencers, you’re not awesome.”

“Nobody cares about your logo, ever, in the history of the planet.”

“Your brand is not your logo; your brand is your actions.”

“Awesome employees are not overhead.”

Social media allows people who wouldn’t directly approach a brand to vent. Social media won’t fix a bad product or experience, it will just amplify it.

“The secret to successful business: Work Hard.”

Write content for an audience beyond your subscribers.

“The best frequency to blog at is when you have something to say.”

“Write Now: Writing For the Season You’re In” with Annie Downs

Annie Downs is the author of “Perfectly Unique: Praising God from Head to Foot,” which I’m thinking about ordering for my 13-year-old niece. Annie enjoys Nutella and the internet, and she wears very cute clothes. Here are some of my notes from her session:

“Be full of grace with yourself.” (I heard variations of this concept all weekend long. Perhaps I should take it to heart?)

Write about yourself and what matters to you, but not at the expense of those you love.

What should you write about? Things you’re hoping for; topics you wish someone else was writing about. If you’re looking for it, chances are someone else is, too.

Sometimes you need to live the story before you write about it.

Do what doesn’t make you crazy.

“Living an Amazing Life” with CC Chapman

photo by Rockford
CC Chapman is the author of “Amazing Things Will Happen” and “Content Rules.” He loves his kids and his wife, he’s kind and generous, and he hates seagulls. I may have gotten a little verklempt on him when I asked him to sign his book for Rockford.

Here are some of my notes from his session:

Define “amazing” on your terms, then choose your path. You need a concrete, attainable goal.

“Normal is a boring way to live your life.”

“If they don’t want you to succeed, they’re not your friends.”

Seagulls: People who swoop in, drop poo on you and fly away. “The internet is full of seagulls.”

Be a duck: Let things roll off. I explained this concept to Pete this morning when I was mad at his sister for some minor infraction. He quacked.

Celebrate success of all sizes; don’t wait until you finish your project to celebrate.

Always give back. “Life is too short to focus on cashing the checks.”

Blissdom, briefly

I’ve heard from many people that the Blissdom conference was a transcendental, transformative weekend filled with glitter and unicorns, so I wasn’t really surprised to find that most of the sessions were more motivational-speaker than how-to. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but I didn’t come home with a plan to take over the world. And I’d sort of expected to, after hearing of so many other people who’d had that experience.

I did, however, come home with the conviction that I need to be more present in my own life. That’s kind of depressing and humbling to admit. And it’s going to be a little painful, because it means I’m going to have to put down the internet and pick up the Hot Wheels and My Little Ponies more often.

Right now I’m going to read the kids a few bedtime stories, and then I’ll continue tending to Rockford, who is in the basement trying to fight off what looks suspiciously like the flu. (The basement: It’s where we keep our invalids.) Rest assured, though — by the end of this week you’ll be thoroughly tired of hearing about Blissdom. In the meantime, here’s what a few other people thought about the conference:

One phrase really resonated with me during the closing key note speech by Jon Acuff: Being a mom is enough. … What I pull from this statement is not to focus only on raising my kids, but rather to make them my priority.

from “Blissdom reminded me to take it slow” by Amy at The MomBot.

The sessions were only an hour long, and I know that was on purpose so that we were not overloaded with information. But I wanted to be overloaded with information. I wanted to leave with a long to-do list of things I could implement on my blog. That just didn’t happen.

from “Some thoughts on Blissdom” by The Nerd’s Wife.

Unlike the mass of Blissdom attendees who write about their excitement and expected life change, I just showed up. I assumed the common thread of those women was that they had little else going on. Turns out why they love Blissdom was because they are like me and have too much else going on.

Blissdom gets you away from the else.

from “Leaving My Past in Grapevine, Texas: What Jon Acuff (& other People I Didn’t Know Six Months Ago) Gave Me This Weekend” by Lilly at Pancakes & Beet Juice

Justification

Early tomorrow I’ll get on a plane en route to my fifth social media conference in three years. I haven’t really said much about the trip to people I know in “real life.” No one is paying me to be a social media consultant, and I’m definitely not making any money from this website. So I find myself trying to justify the trips. To myself. No one else has challenged me on it, because frankly I doubt that anyone else is really all that concerned.

Anyway, I can’t tell myself that I’m going so I can amortize the capital or integrate the paradigm matrix or anything like that (mostly because I don’t think those phrases actually mean anything), so I think it’s time I admit to myself and anyone who cares that I go to these things because they’re fun. I’m going so I can hug people I talk to every day on my computer. I’m going so I can learn from people who are making a living from social media. I’m going because this morning I had to bathe a cat who’d been coated in about a quarter of a jar of peanut butter. I’m going because I need some time to gather my thoughts and refill my bowl of words so I can write something other than a menu and a to-do list.

I’m going, and I’ll tell you all about it next week.

I'm Going, Y'all!