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We get out of the house, and Ben Affleck gets out of the boycott room

Ben Affleck submits his formal request to be removed from Nichole’s boycott room.
Nichole and I have always enjoyed going to the movies together. When we started dating, it was whatever happened to be showing in our little home town theater, which was not exactly the crème de la crème of cinematic delights. Lots of action movies and Pacino past his prime throw-away fare. The video store offered more rewarding viewing.

College was better. We were closer to more options and more choice, thus more chances to see quality first-run talkies. Also, better video stores with more to offer. Graduate school time was the tops. Terrific theaters, great choices, and top-notch video stores. And disposable income pre-children! We were Cineplex junkies, pretty much watching all the new fare we wanted to. Sometimes, we even got popcorn and soda.

Then the first child arrived.

If I plot the data, I find there is a direct correlation between increased child cost/time and reduction in time spent doing frivolous activities — it only makes sense, there are only so many days in the week, hours in the day. What ensued we will call The Void. Very few trips to the theater, very many trips to the grocery store.

Time passed.

What happened next was (I suppose) to be expected. We got to go to the theater again but the trips tended to coincide with Disney’s seasonal release schedule. Funny how that seems to work. I enjoy a good animated feature as much as the next guy, but this was the dominating trend. Every now and then we would steal a matinee that was not the brainchild of John Lasseter when the timing worked out right on a family holiday visit, but it was rare.

We are coming out of The Void, but if I step out of myself for a moment and realize just how excited I was about “Wreck-It Ralph” last week, I get a little worried.

All of this is to say this: When we do get the opportunity to go see a movie made by and for grown-ups, it better be good. No, it better be excellent.

“Argo” was excellent. The writing was solid, the dialogue crisp with few (if any) wasted lines. It was exciting, nerve-racking and terrifying — probably because it was based on true events. I enjoyed all the performances, but Alan Arkin stood out among the pack.

Just how excellent was “Argo”? So excellent, it got Mr. Affleck out of Nichole’s virtual boycott room (I think the only remaining occupant is Tom Cruise but sometimes I think he may have me as company). Affleck had been in her boycott room for something like twelve years, so nice job getting out, Ben
When my wife asked me to write this she probably wanted more in-depth commentary. I hope she’s OK with this. Maybe the best commentary comes from her own observations once “Argo” had ended and we were getting up to leave.

As we stood up and stretched, she looked out over the audience, turned to me and said, “No one moved.”
And she was right. I hadn’t thought about it until then but throughout the entire movie no one had left the theater for the last two hours. We would have seen them; we were by the exit.

I kind of wonder if anyone had even taken a breathe.

That’s how excellent “Argo” is.

And now we are thirty-four

Poppy climbed into my bed this morning to snuggle and tell me happy birthday, and then I ate cake for breakfast. In fact, the first and last things I ate today were cake. That’s a pretty good day.

It was a nice weekend overall, as a matter of fact. We had Pete’s “Star Wars” birthday party yesterday, and later in the evening my sister-in-law Phoebe and her fiance Christian came over to watch the kids while Rockford and I went to see “Argo.” It was a very tense, very enjoyable movie. Ben Affleck has been in my Boycott Room for a lot of years, but this one got him released. I’m going to try to get Rockford to write a review of it for the site; we’ll see.

Rockford’s rock ‘n’ roll summer

Our very last Summertime Rewind post is brought to us by our own Rockford, who as I type this is singing Vanessa Williams’ “Saved the Best for Last” to me. Which really does something for his rock & roll street cred, doesn’t it?

Like everyone else, I have lots of great summer memories. Family gatherings on hot days, road trips, vacations to exotic locations (you know, like Wisconsin or other upper Mid-Western states), cookouts, playing frisbee in the backyard — all of these are in the memory banks.

The memory that recently rose to the surface of my recollection relates to summertime concerts. I have seen lot of shows over the years, and many of them in the summertime. Funny thing, the summertime heat seems to bring out the classic rockers that find a welcome reception on the state fair/theme park rotation. You know, we’ve all seen the billboards beckoning us to come see Bad Company at some regional casino usually in July or August.

My first concert rock was one of these special summertime shows — The Steve Miller Band at Six Flags over Georgia in 1994 with my best friend Don.
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