What's a family gathering without gambling and tears?

Growing up, I spent the holidays at my dad’s house. The big family gatherings always started with a lot of food and ended with all of the adults — and occasionally an older kid or two — seated around the table playing Tonk. I tried to find the rules to Tonk, but apparently there are several different Tonks, and not one of the versions I found is the version Dad’s family plays. I haven’t played it in a long time, but I know that there doesn’t seem to be a limit to how many people can play. Each player gets three cards, there’s discarding and picking up of cards and the goal is to get as close as possible to 30 points. Then someone knocks on the table, everyone gets one more shot at playing and someone wins the round — and most of the quarters in the middle of the table. A player’s game is over when their quarters are all gone. I think you start with three or four quarters, and I can’t remember exactly how you lose them or why the people who don’t lose them get to keep theirs.

As you might guess, I didn’t play all that frequently. Maybe one of my relatives will weigh in here with a more accurate set of rules for you.

My family game of choice leans more in the direction of board games. We played a lot of Cranium when it first came out, but lately we’ve been a little obsessed with The Settlers of Catan. To the point that someone made me cry with their merciless playing at a recent get-together. I’m not naming names, but you know who you are. And I hope I win “Boom Blox,” because I will take you down on the Wii, my friend.

Speaking of “Boom Blox,” I wrote this post in hopes of winning it and “Hasbro Family Game Night.” Here’s how you can enter to win, too:

This week,” PBN has “teamed up with Electronic Arts, who recently released an array of fun, family-focused video games just in time for those family holiday gatherings – including Littlest Pet Shop, Boogie SuperStar, Boom Blox, and Hasbro Family Game Night (a collection of six classic board games), just to name a few! Whether you join in the fun or sneak off to take an overdue nap while others are playing, there is something for everyone from the kids to the grandparents!

Here’s how to participate:

Write a post on your blog about the games you play at family holiday gatherings. Post anytime this weekend” — before midnight tonight! — “and include links to:

1) http://www.ea.com
2) http://blog.parentbloggers.com

Make sure to send your blog post link to parentbloggers@gmail.com and we’ll round them… so give your post a creative title!

I'm pretty sure this is good news

From what I understand, the doctors didn’t find any cancerous cells in Uncle Brian’s test sample the other day. They’ve decided that rather than doing a biopsy, they’re going to start radiation treatment to shrink the tumor. Then, as my cousin put it, “once it’s small enough the doctors should be able to kill it with a laser thing!”

Friday links! C'mon get happy

  • I’m going with a pale, pale winter white for my face-clothes this season. And every other season as well.
  • Bugs and Fishes has a lovely idea for labeling your holiday gifts. I most likely won’t use it, though, because I don’t have a printer and my free-hand font skills are lacking. But you! You definitely ought to do it.
  • I still don’t believe Plaxico is a real name.
  • Something about these Brown Butter Brown Sugar Shorties appeals to me. I think it’s this: They look delicious, and I’m hungry.
  • I think Roger Ebert may be on to something with this: “A newspaper film critic is like a canary in a coal mine. When one croaks, get the hell out. The lengthening toll of former film critics acts as a poster child for the self-destruction of American newspapers, which once hoped to be more like the New York Times and now yearn to become more like the National Enquirer. We used to be the town crier. Now we are the neighborhood gossip.”
  • I think I’ve seen a bumper sticker or something that says, “Smile! It’s contagious!” Well, apparently there’s truth in that.