Get it together with Pear Budget

SimpleMom says she’s found the secret to solving my family’s budgeting problems. It’s an online budgeting service called Pear Budget. Pear Budget was originally one couple’s budget spreadsheet. They posted it online, where it was downloaded a gagillion times. Now they’ve made it into an online business.

I was one of the gagillion people who downloaded their spreadsheet. It was a very nicely designed spreadsheet, but it wasn’t the secret to solving our problems. Because it doesn’t fill out itself, and it doesn’t pop out of your wallet at Target and say, “Hey! That cute little onesie isn’t in your budget this month!”

But maybe you’re more disciplined than I am. If you are, you ought to check out Pear Budget. And guess what? SimpleMom is giving away a lifetime membership. Woo-hoo!

A surprisingly pleasant failure

Works for Me Wednesday

Poppy is a bit, shall we say, attached to her “shows.” It’s not unusual for her to ask for “Sesame” or “Easter Beagle” or “Baby Kitty” before she even gets out of bed. I thought I could use this to my advantage in the Battle to Get Poppy to Eat Something Nutritious. So I laid down the gauntlet: “No more shows until you take one bite of fruit.”

That was last Thursday.

The first few days when she asked to watch something I had to remind her, “No fruit, no show.” She responded with fits for about two days, then with “No show.”

While this hasn’t worked exactly as I’d hoped it would, the “no fruit, no show” approach has worked for me. I’d been wanted to cut back on the amount of TV the kids watched, and sticking to the promise/threat I made last week has definitely done that. The television has been on in her presence — it was US Open week, after all — but Poppy hasn’t seen any of her programming in nearly a week. And she’s fine with it. I asked her this morning if she’d like to watch “Sesame Street.” I was prepared to say, “OK then, let’s take a bite of banana!” But it didn’t come to that. She said, “No shows,” and then she went off to play in her room.

That works for me.

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Paging Dr. Internet …

Pete seems to have some sort of rash. The spots aren’t raised, and they don’t seem to be bothering him. He isn’t running a fever and hasn’t shown any signs of feeling under the weather. He also hasn’t had any new foods this week, and we haven’t used any new lotions or soaps. Any ideas?